Monday, April 27, 2009

Update on Preston Loyd


Thank you to everyone who has been so kind and lifted this family up in prayer over the last few days. I wanted to update you on Preston's condition and give you a link to his Caring Bridge site where his parents have been updating everyone on a daily basis.

Latest news from Preston's mom:

Preston has a bit of fever, 101.2, please pray this will go to normal, and it not related to any pneumonia or other infection.

News for today. They met with surgeons this morning. They plan on operating again at around 12:30.

Here are the items they will be addressing:

  • Cleanse abdominal area again to reduce risk of infection.
  • Possible move right femoral line up to under shoulder blade. Our Intensivist, Dr. Wilson, would like it installed in operating room conditions. The current line was installed by trauma team. Just another little item to reduce risk of infection.
  • Feeding tube placement into intestines (jejuncstomy). This will allow some better nutrition for now and get him off the intravenous feeding.
  • Start the work of closing the abdominal wall. This may happen now, or more surgery. Options are using current chest wall, using Duoderm??, or may a wound vac? A plastic surgeon will be in the room to observe and plan for subsequent surgeries.

Pray for the doctors by name. Again, our superhero who has operated on Preston each time, Dr. Bambini. Dr. Arru and Dr. Morton, who are the pediatric surgeons, to begin the work on his chest.

Please pray @ 12:30 that God will provide the best possible situation to close Preston's wounds, and press him on towards recovery.


Here is the Caring Bridge link that you can follow to get up to date information on how Preston is doing and what prayers are needed. Go to www.caringbridge.org and type prestonloyd (all one word and lower case).

Friday, April 24, 2009

Urgent Prayer Needed for Preston Lloyd!

I received an email yesterday that was requesting urgent and fervent prayer for a 4 year old little boy named Preston Lloyd. Yesterday he was playing in the yard while his grandfather was mowing the lawn and after his grandfather put the mower in reverse Preston ran behind the mower and it ran over his little body. The accident cost him several of his internal organs and the next 12-24 hours are critical to his survival. If he does survive the doctors have told his parents that the recovery time could be 3-5 years.

I can only imagine what these parents, grandfather and little Preston must be going through, so would you please join me in prayer for this entire family. Below is the email Preston's father sent out this morning:

First, let me say the outpouring of love and support has been overwhelming. I am so humbled for the calls, emails, voicemails, texts and all the Facebook posts. Our family feels so loved by each of you in this excruciating time.Preston stabilized today. You need to understand that they have done no real repair to his insides. The trauma doctors primarily saved his life and stopped the bleeding. Then, they put his digestive system back inside and sent him to the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit (PICU) to stabilize so further operations could be performed.Today, they advised we have a very long road and Preston is no where near out of the woods. Tomorrow morning they will operate again. At that time, they will get a better picture of how they can repair his digestive system. There are multiple plans. Apparently, the majority of his esophagus has been torn away and is no longer attached to the stomach. There is damage to the pancreas, small and large intestine. The hope is that his digestive system can be repaired and in working order over the course of a couple months.Pray specifically tonight that his organs will all be usable.

We Love You All.

Ashton & Cinamon


*Please check this blog regularly for updates on Preston's prayer needs*

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Living With No Regrets



This past weekend my hubby and I were able to enjoy a date night out and hear an amazing testimony for the Lord. The speaker was the author of "Into the Deep", Robert Rogers. His story is one of tragedy and triumph as he and his family( wife and 4 children) were caught in a flash flood that was 6 feet high and hundreds of feet wide. Only he miraculously survived the flood and was left to bury his wife and four children.


This story is a tough one to imagine, but when we heard the overwhelming joy he has and what God has done in his life it is nothing but inspiring. I encourage you to read his testimony , read his book "Into the Deep" and check out his ministry, Mighty in the Land. Both my husband and I were even more touched when we found out about his heart for adoption and orphaned children.


I was convicted by one of the messages he tried to convey, which was to live life with no regrets. Be thankful to God for what blessings He has given and not be focused on what I want because only God truly knows what I need and when I need it (I admit I struggle with this one and waiting to expand our family has been a true test of faith). Live to bring God glory in everything I do. We don't know when our last breathe will be, just like Robert and his family that night, and I only have one life to bring God glory. It made me ask forgiveness for all the wasted time I have spent over my Christian life on my own agenda instead of God's.

Another inspiring part of his story has to do with this drawing his oldest daughter drew a year before her death and how Robert found it just days after his family's funerals were complete. I can't do justice to this by writing about it, so please click here to learn the full story.


Sometimes in life you get to witness someone who faces a tragedy with the kind of peace and strength that can only come from God. I must say that this was one of those people. May he be blessed in his ministry and as he delivers his story to others in the future.

Friday, April 17, 2009

Frugal Friday

Pharmacy Prescriptions

Do you have a prescription that needs to be filled each month? Or maybe some that you fill a few times each year? If so, there is a great way to make some free money. I call it the pharmacy game and I have been playing it for years. Here's how it works:

1) You need a new or existing prescription.

2) Be willing to transfer that prescription (or fill new one) at a pharmacy other than where you have your Rx now.

3) Download valid coupons for new or transferred Rx. Here are the current ones out there right now: Target is offering a $10 gift card for a new or transferred Rx (coupons available at pharmacy counter in Target) and Rite Aid is offering up to $50 in gift certificates for 2 transferred Rx. Click here to download coupon.

4) Some pharmacies take competitor coupons, so check out this chart to see which ones might work for you.

5) Most pharmacies will price match also. So, if you are worried about paying more for your Rx just call ahead and see what their policies are for price matching.

6) Enjoy your extra spending money for filling a Rx you would have filled anyway!

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Adoption Photo Book

I put the finishing touches on our adoption photo book last night, hooray! As many of you remember it has been a long process due to a computer crash and losing most of my work. Yikes! But, it is officially finished and I am sending it to our lawyer today and now possible birth parents can use our book as a way to get to know our family a little better.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Red Envelope Success!

Remember those red envelopes we all sent to the White House? It looks like they received over 2 million and it was the biggest White House mailing campagin in over 35 years. Way to go!!!
Read more here.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Creating Easter Memories

This year has been extra special for me as I have had the privilege to teach our son the true meaning of Easter. I wanted to share with you two special traditions we have in our family to help bring the story of Easter to life.


Resurrection Eggs

Last year I found a great hands on way to teach the resurrection story with Family Life's Resurrection Eggs. For the 12 days leading up to Easter we read the book Benjamin's Box and have Rhett open the egg that corresponds with the page of the story we are reading. I must say that it has been 12 nights of not having to coax Rhett to bed because he looked forward to opening a new egg so much each night he actually looked forward to bedtime! There are so many different ways you can use the eggs, but we found that reading a new page (new egg) each night and all the previous pages (eggs) was the best way to reinforce the story. I felt such joy at our Easter brunch today when Rhett was able to explain each egg and the entire resurrection story. A big hand goes to the creators of such a great resource for learning!

Empty Tomb Cookies

This year I started a new tradition and we made empty tomb cookies. We had a great time making these together (Rhett loves any opportunity to eat!) and using each of the ingredients to symbolize different parts of the resurrection story . Here's how it works:

Begin this recipe the Saturday before Easter Sunday.

You will need:

1 cup whole pecans
1 teaspoon vinegar
3 egg whites
pinch salt
1 cup sugar
zipper baggie
wooden spoon or a wooden meat hammer
duct tape or packing tape
Bible
Preheat oven to 300*F.

Place pecans in zipper baggie and let children beat them with the wooden spoon or hammer to break them into small pieces.

Explain that after Jesus was arrested he was beaten by the Roman soldiers. Read John 19:1-3.

Let each child smell the vinegar. Put 1 teaspoon of vinegar into the mixing bowl.
Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross he was given vinegar to drink. Read John 19:28-30.

Add egg whites to the vinegar. Eggs represent life.
Explain that Jesus gave his life to give us life. Read John 10:10-11.

Sprinkle a little salt into each child's hand. Let them taste. Then put your pinch of salt in the bowl. Explain that this represents the salty tears shed by Jesus' followers, and the bitterness of our own sin. Read Luke 23:27

So far, the ingredients are not very appetizing! Add 1 cup sugar to the bowl.
Explain that the sweetest part of the story is that Jesus died because he loves us. He wants us to know and belong to him. Read Psalm 34:8 and John 3:16.

Beat with a mixer on high speed for 10 to 15 minutes until stiff peaks form.

Explain that the color white represents the purity in God's eyes of those whose sins have been cleansed by Jesus. Read Isaiah 1:18 and John 3:1-3.

Fold in broken nuts. Drop by teaspoons onto wax paper covered cookie sheets.
Explain that each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus' body was laid. Read Matthew 27:57-60.

Put the cookie sheet in the oven, close the door and turn the oven OFF. Give each child a piece of tape to seal the oven door.
Explain that Jesus' tomb was sealed. Read Matthew 27:65-66.

Leave the kitchen. If you've been making these cookies just before bedtime, GO TO BED!

Acknowledge that the kids are probably sad that they've worked hard to make these cookies, and now have to leave them in the oven overnight. Explain that Jesus' followers were in sad when Jesus died and the tomb was sealed. Read John 16:20 and 22.

On Easter morning, open the oven and give everyone a cookie. Ask the kids to notice the cracked surface. Have them bite into the cookies. The cookies are hollow!

Explain that on the first Easter morning, Jesus' followers were amazed to find the tomb open and empty. Read Matthew 28:1-9.

HE HAS RISEN!

Friday, April 10, 2009

Frugal Friday

Refinancing Your Mortgage
With interest rates at an all time low I thought I would touch on the subject of refinancing. When you refinance your mortgage, you take out a new home loan and use some or all of the proceeds to pay off the existing one. If you obtain a lower interest rate on your new loan than you had on your old one, you'll be saving money!
Qualifying for a new home loan
When a lender makes a decision about a mortgage application, they consider two basic factors: 1) your ability and 2) your willingness to repay the loan.
You ability to repay the mortgage is determined by making sure of your current employment and looking at your total income. Your proposed monthly payment will be compared to your monthly income and debt. Willingness to repay is determined by how you have paid on previous loans. Of course there is always the credit score check. And have you ever wondered what is a good score anyway? Below is some great information on how lenders look at scores. If you want to know what your score is and do it for free go to www.annualcreditreport.com.

*700 and above – Very good to excellent. Lenders will have no problems giving you a loan with a credit score of 700 or above.

*680 to 699 – This credit score puts you in the "Good" category. That one point between good and very good to excellent credit generally makes little difference to lenders so don't sweat it.

*620 to 679 – If your credit score falls into this range, you fall into the "Okay" category. The closer your score is to 679, the better. 620 is consider to be a "par" credit rating and you may be required to provide supporting information such as additional income statements, personal and professional references as well as documentation confirming time at your current job.

*580 to 619 – While you aren't in the "Bad" category yet, you are teetering on the edge if your credit score falls in this range. 620 is the prime rate cut-off, so plan on paying a higher interest rate or work on improving your credit score.

*500 to 580 – You can still get credit in this scoring range, but expect to pay a very high interest rate and look closely at the terms of your agreement. Closely examine how your interest rate is calculated. Some predatory lenders will charge interest rates on car loans that are calculated like credit cards, on a daily average balance. If you see these words in your disclosures for a car loan, put the pen down and walk away.

*499 and below – Yes, even with as score of 499 or below you can still be extended credit, but the interest rates will kill you financially. Take a year or two to pay off your collections or bad debt, clean up your credit and reapply at a later date.
~from Bank Rate

When to Do It

Generally, there are two good times to refinance your mortgage. If you've got an adjustable rate mortgage, one of those times is during periods of rising interest rates. If you refinance to a lower fixed rate mortgage you will avoid the higher costs that you would incur as the adjustable rate mortgage starts going up.

The other time to jump on a refinance is when you'll save money by getting a lower interest rate. You want to make sure that your monthly savings will pay back your refinancing costs while you are still in the home. If you sell the home before the refinancing costs have paid for themselves you won't be saving anything.

The Cost of Refinancing


Your refinancing cost is the total of any points, closing costs, and private mortgage insurance (PMI) premiums that you pay when you take out the new loan. There are times when lenders offer "no points, no closing costs" refinancing deals. Check the terms of the offer carefully to make sure that you understand what's involved.


Points are prepaid fees. One point equals 1 percent of the amount you're borrowing, and any points you're charged are usually deducted from the mortgage proceeds you receive. Mortgage lenders typically charge one point as a loan origination fee. Beyond that, lenders may charge additional points on loans with interest rates below the current market rate. By doing so, the lender makes a little more money up front, and you get a lower interest rate on your mortgage. So, if you're going to stay in your house for a long time and can afford to do so, paying more points in the beginning may get you a better interest rate and save you more money in the long run.


Your closing costs include a variety of fees, such as an appraisal fee, a title search fee, recording fees, and other fees associated with processing and finalizing your mortgage. If your loan-to-value ratio is greater than 80 percent of the appraised value of your property, you may also be required to carry PMI. The premiums for this insurance usually become a portion of your new monthly mortgage payment and thus reduce your savings from refinancing. In addition, you may discover hidden costs. For example, if you're paying less interest on your new mortgage, you'll have less to deduct on your income tax return. If this makes your tax payments higher, your savings will be further offset.


Once you've determined what your refinancing costs will be, you can then determine how long it will take for your refinancing to pay for itself. To do so, divide the total of the points and closing costs that you paid by the net monthly savings that the new loan provides you. Your net monthly savings will be your interest savings less any PMI premiums and tax advantage losses expressed as monthly figures.


For example, assume you refinanced $200,000. You paid two points and total closing costs of $1,800. You got a great interest rate on the loan, so you'll save $80 a month in interest charges. However, your PMI premiums are now $10 per month higher, and you've lost tax savings of $120 a year, or $10 per month. Your refinancing costs are $3,800--two points of $1,000 each and $1,800 in closing costs. Meanwhile, your net savings are $60 per month--$80 per month saved interest less $10 per month increased PMI premiums and $10 per month lost tax savings. If you divide $3,800 by $60, you'll find your refinancing will pay for itself in a little over 63 months.

Who Can Refinance

There are several routes you can take to refinance. You can contact your current lender, search the internet for rates or contact a mortgage broker. When we refinanced a few weeks ago we did all the above. I found that going through a mortgage broker worked best for us and I really liked the personal attention we received as we worked through the process. It can be hard to find someone you trust and feel comfortable with as you make this decision. Make sure you find someone who will take time with you and answer all your questions. If you like the idea of going through a mortgage broker you can call a trusted friend of mine and my mom's (my mom is a real estate broker and used Karen for many years) Karen Guinn at Met Life Home Loans (919)852-2545 or kguinn@metlifehomeloans.com.

I hope this helped shed a little light on a subject that can be overwhelming and sometimes hard to understand.

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Ready, Set, Bowl!

For the last few months our son has been asking us to go bowling. I knew it was time to take him when last week I found him using our drinking cups for pins and rocks as bowling balls. Isn't it funny when they get an idea in their minds and they use their imaginations ever so creatively to make it happen!

So, last night we headed down to the local bowling alley
and laced up our fashion forward bowling shoes
(Rhett's were actually kind of cute!).
How do you hold this thing?
A little help from daddy.
I think I've got it!
You know it's bad when your 3 year old gets almost the same
scoreas you do and it's his first time! We are going to have
to start bowling more often.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Runway Rhett

Well there was no runway, but Rhett did get to model for the clothing store Chocolate Soup on Saturday. My talented friend Nicole Rogers (Nicole Rogers Photography)was the photographer and she did a great job capturing the spirit of our vivacious 3 year old. My favorite thing about her photography style is that I will look back on these photos years from now and remember him exactly as he was, energy and all!




I think someone likes the camera!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Frugal Friday

Couponing Basics: How to Get Started
This week's Frugal Friday post is from a guest blogger. My friend Miranda and I share the love of saving money and the excitement of a great deal. Check out her blog for more ways to save.
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Where do you get coupons??

1. Sunday paper- This is the best way to stock up on TONS of great coupons. If it is a great paper one week, go out and get another paper because chances are, you will be able to get some fabulous deals before they expire.

2. Walgreens hidden coupons!! - Walgreens has additional coupon booklets in the cosmetics and pharmacy department. Just ask for the coupon booklet and they will hand one over to you!

3. Printable Coupons- Printable coupons are great because the value is higher than the Sunday paper most of the time. After you print a coupon, hit the back button and then refresh and most of the time, they will let you print at least 2 per computer!! I had a Clean and Clear coupon last month that printed 10 times!!! **Do check to see if they double or triple because some do not.

4. Free samples- Almost all free samples found HERE will send you coupons for those product when they send you your sample.
Question 2- What is this crazy language 1/12 SS??
This is usually how I will do my postings.... Example: from Walgreens
Reynolds Aluminum Foil- $2.08
after in ad cpn $.89 and
$1 cpn from the SS 2/08
Final- FREE
This means that the $2.08 is the sale price that is listed in the store.
Ad in coupons (cpn) are found in the Walgreens' flyer located in the Sunday's paper or at your local store when you walk in.
The $1 off coupon from the SS 2/08 means that there was a $1 off coupon in the Smart Source insert (SS) of the Sunday's paper on February 8th (2/08).
Stores will never let you pair up two manufacture coupons but they will almost always let you use their store coupon with the manufacture coupon. When the above coupons are given, the final price for the foil is tax only. ***Please note that if your cashier tells you that they can't do your transaction because the coupon is higher than the price, hand over the manufactures coupon 1st, then the store coupon. This usually works.
What is this crazy language 1/12 SS??

This is usually how I will do my postings.... Example: from Walgreens
Reynolds Aluminum Foil- $2.08
after in ad cpn $.89 and
$1 cpn from the SS 2/08
Final- FREE

This means that the $2.08 is the sale price that is listed in the store.
Ad in coupons (cpn) are found in the Walgreens' flyer located in the Sunday's paper or at your local store when you walk in.
The $1 off coupon from the SS 2/08 means that there was a $1 off coupon in the Smart Source insert (SS) of the Sunday's paper on February 8th (2/08).
Stores will never let you pair up two manufacture coupons but they will almost always let you use their store coupon with the manufacture coupon. When the above coupons are given, the final price for the foil is tax only. ***Please note that if your cashier tells you that they can't do your transaction because the coupon is higher than the price, hand over the manufactures coupon 1st, then the store coupon. This usually works.
How much work is involved??

Nothing in life is completely free. Just like these deals, time, organization, and patience will need to be invested. I have always pinched pennies at the grocery store but I went from spending around $400 a month...not bad.... to $200 a month for not only groceries but pet and baby supplies as well! So, the few hours I put in a week are worth the savings for our family.
Organization is also very important to help save you time and stress when you go to the store. I try and organize my store list by how the store is laid out. For example, I have all the produce coupons on top and the frozen foods on the bottom. My list is also in order with my coupons so I don't have to go back and forth all over the store with a toddler.
The most important thing is to start small and don't make a huge list of deals and then head to the store. You will probably end up super confused and frustrated. Try a few things a week and then add a few more and so on. Also, if you are new to couponing, don't try and go to 5 stores in your first week....unless you have already become an addict!!


Thanks Miranda for all your couponing basics!

Thursday, April 2, 2009

On Waiting ...

Since I promised to share the entire experience of adopting in hopes of making it something others can learn from, I thought it was important to let you know about the latest feelings and emotions.

Today, I realized that my heart desperately wants a baby and waiting for our adopted child has now become harder. Of course once you make the decision to adopt you immediately want to meet your sweet child, but the excitement of starting the journey keeps you occupied for awhile. Paperwork, adoption albums and the home study keep you quite busy in the beginning. But, with all that behind us it's just hurry up and wait time. This marks almost 4 months into our journey and you begin to slow down and wonder, "How long will our wait be?"

As much as my husband and I are awaiting the arrival of the baby someone else in our house also eagerly awaits. My 3 year old has had the baby on his heart a lot recently. Each night he prays for his brother and sister (he told us he's getting one of each!) and wants to know why everyone else has a brother or sister but not him. I never thought about a 3 year old having such a strong desire for a sibling. And, as a mother my heart wants to give him his desire more than anything. Then I remember that even more than I want provide for Rhett's desire is our Lord who not only knows our heart's desire, but the perfect timing to make it fulfilled.

My soul, wait silently for God alone,
For my expectation is from Him.
He only is my rock and my salvation;
He is my defense;
I shall not be moved.
In God is my salvation and my glory;
The rock of my strength, And my refuge, is in God.
Trust in Him at all times, you people;
Pour out your heart before Him;
God is a refuge for us. Selah
Psalms 62: 5-8

Prayer:

Thank you Lord that you allow me to come to you with all my emotions, even ones of anxiousness. Thank you for helping me remember that you know my deepest desires. And, help me also remember to keep you as my foremost desire. No matter the wait I want your will to be done so others can see you in the midst of our entire adoption journey.

Amen

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Coupon Crazy!

I know it's not frugal Friday yet, but I just had to share all the deals I was able to snag this week and maybe get some of you excited enough to go try it for yourself.


CVS Deals


Glade Plug-In - $1 after coupon and CVS ECB (extra care bucks)
(2)Scrubbing Bubbles Action Scrubbers - .25 each after coupons
Fantastik spray and Scrubbing Bubbles spray - $2.50 for both after coupon and ECB
(2)Colgate toothbrushes - $3.25 for both after coupon and ECB
PAAS Egg decorating kit - FREE after ECB
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Total $7.25 for everything above

The actual price without coupons and EBC - $34.52
that's a savings of $27.27!



Walgreens Deals

One a Day Women's Vitamins - FREE after rebate
Wax paper 75 ft. - .89 after coupon
(2) Comet cleaners - $1 after coupon
Revlon eye lash curler and Revlon tweezers - $4.49 after BOGO
(2)Soy Joy bars - $1 after coupon
Refill on color ink cartridge - FREE after rebate
(2)Soft Soap body wash - $3.25 for both after coupon and rebate
Skintimate Shave Gel - FREE after rebate
Edge Shave Gel - FREE after rebate
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Total $10.63 for everything above

The actual price without coupons and rebates -$51.80
that's a savings of $41.17!



Harris Teeter Deals


This week was triple coupons so it was easy to go crazy.


(5) Jolly Time Popcorn - after coupon and store sale .88 each
Chock full of nuts coffee - $1.14 after coupon
(2)Vanilla extract- $1.29 each after coupon
Suave deodorant - FREE after coupon
Mennen deodorant - FREE after coupon
Lady Speed Stick deodorant - FREE after coupon
Colgate Toothpaste - .25 after coupon
French's mustard - FREE after coupon
Curves Bars - .25 after coupon
Smuckers Jelly - .25 after coupon
French's Honey Mustard - .50 after coupon and store sale
Soft Scrub Gel - .89 after coupon
Brownie Mix - .40 after coupon and store sale
Barilla mini wheels - FREE after coupon
Barilla Pasta- FREE after coupon
Newman's sauce - .75 after coupon
Barilla Sauce - $1 after coupon and store sale
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Total $12.43 for everything above
The actual price without coupons - $73.74
that's a savings of $61.31!



So, in one day I saved over $130 and had fun at the same time!!!

On Friday, I will be posting more about Couponing Basics: Where, When and How. So come on back and learn how you can get a bunch of stuff for a little money!